tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post2925172616284142350..comments2023-06-01T06:18:53.975-07:00Comments on Narcissism Support Resources: Know Your LimitsAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14330003648158273927noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-22136409778872273502017-05-14T07:41:28.744-07:002017-05-14T07:41:28.744-07:00I would say that you were the victim of narcissist...I would say that you were the victim of narcissistic abuse, which can only stem from a narcissist. The hallmark of narcissism (or NPD) is not so much about the number of traits present (although there has to be at least five), but their all enduring nature and presence of those traits too. The visibility and recognition of these traits in a person never ebbs and flows as it might with someone Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-74277569014803006702016-05-04T03:16:46.143-07:002016-05-04T03:16:46.143-07:00I am new to this or any forum or support pages. I&...I am new to this or any forum or support pages. I'm 6 months separated from my husband of 13 yrs and father of myour 8 yrs old daughter and 11yr old son. I feel like this just started like in 6 months not one ounce of progress was made. He made a sex tape of him and another woman and I found it. I told him to get help go to therapy and maybe we cud work things out. He does not think he needs Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05396466864977368760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-74164417608803387582016-03-02T06:27:33.333-08:002016-03-02T06:27:33.333-08:00Sounds like a Narcissist to me. I had and am havin...Sounds like a Narcissist to me. I had and am having a hard time with my own mother, because of that "she did the best she could". My mother hates me as well, but I find it confusing to see all the parts of her so I can discern for myself. I think the largest reason I lived with this woman, and never knew her, is because she had something to hide. I gave my mother one last "chance&Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-48683289506711635622015-04-01T07:55:52.881-07:002015-04-01T07:55:52.881-07:00Invicta:
I am so glad I found your blog.
Your d...Invicta:<br /><br />I am so glad I found your blog. <br /><br />Your description of your life with your parents..., the 20 year absence of contanct and the attempt to reignite after your dad's death only to face the reality of your mother's insanity, fits my parents to a T.<br /><br />Thank you for posting this. It makes me feel less alone. <br /><br />Yes, the fact that a person is a two way mirrornoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-73783136974550733282013-04-24T13:31:17.183-07:002013-04-24T13:31:17.183-07:00There's not a failing within you or something ...There's not a failing within you or something lacking within you, the universe is trying to get you to set boundaries, listen to your gut, look to yourself for validation and love yourself more and it looks like you suceeded :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-28592670291633957892012-09-19T18:01:58.736-07:002012-09-19T18:01:58.736-07:00I'm glad to know I am not alone.I'm glad to know I am not alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-12698101985918016592012-09-05T18:31:32.676-07:002012-09-05T18:31:32.676-07:00This was a great post and I can relate perfectly t...This was a great post and I can relate perfectly to much of it as my mother is like yours. She's also a widow and it's only just now come to my attention that she's a narcissist. It explains so much of what I went through as the scapegoat child and how cold and selfish she is now while putting on a show of taking care of others. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-51286800893129678662012-08-01T09:07:55.837-07:002012-08-01T09:07:55.837-07:00Thanks for that awesome post!Thanks for that awesome post!Besshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08211150594109190701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-76762910763666888212012-05-04T11:25:45.056-07:002012-05-04T11:25:45.056-07:00Oh my goodness Invicta, I feel your pain, and you ...Oh my goodness Invicta, I feel your pain, and you are definitely not alone. I am so sorry your mother was, and is not, a mother. I have the same situation, exactly. Being a mother myself has shown me how important having a mother is, and because of that I can forgive myself for how sad and alone I feel sometimes, and how I felt as a child, facing life without one. I did WELL growing up without dragonflynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-63151553483176623752012-02-11T23:48:43.329-08:002012-02-11T23:48:43.329-08:00I dont know if u have an email, but i so want to a...I dont know if u have an email, but i so want to ask questions about what u said. I think my mom is an N, but i'm not sure. I dated an N and until my therapist told me thats what he was, i never thot my mom was. Then when she told me it was like BAM maybe i couldnt see that he was like that cuz my mom acts the same way too! I dont like to share my private stories, but sometimes i cant even Lil Pixiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08346605693678500957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-25636998093014807742012-02-01T16:39:11.136-08:002012-02-01T16:39:11.136-08:00Barbara said....
Thanks so much for sharing your ...Barbara said....<br /><br />Thanks so much for sharing your story. When I was a teenager, my parents threatened to put me in a mental institution. They were bullies, in my own home. Sometimes, looking back, I wonder if my father had narcissistic personality disorder. Hearing your story makes me feel like I'm not alone. So thank you so much.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14330003648158273927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-18958427289434896272012-01-24T06:12:30.668-08:002012-01-24T06:12:30.668-08:00This is such a wonderful post. You put issues int...This is such a wonderful post. You put issues into a perspective that I have never considered. Having a narcissistic mother skews everything I think about myself and the world. But I am finally getting help, and your post is like supplementary reading.<br />Thank you!Redfizzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01009904473731694965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-51557179901413156252012-01-02T04:36:47.568-08:002012-01-02T04:36:47.568-08:00Invicta,
I read your posts for awhile and you are...Invicta,<br /><br />I read your posts for awhile and you are the first person who dare publish these kind of familial problems with this precision and assertivity. thank's a lot for that.<br /><br />one year ago I had discovred the vaknin's websites, thank's also for your battle against this pervert activism.<br /><br />I'm in a variant of same problem, my two parents are Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-46844499141975690002011-12-10T18:18:07.286-08:002011-12-10T18:18:07.286-08:00It still amazes me that there are others out there...It still amazes me that there are others out there like me. Similiar stories. Thank you for sharing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-16936722170486478112011-12-07T22:22:34.362-08:002011-12-07T22:22:34.362-08:00Thank you.
It was as though you were also telling...Thank you.<br /><br />It was as though you were also telling my story at some points.<br /><br />"And she was the walking dead, with no interest in others that did not serve her interests"Christinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1461367031084175533.post-54603825440420805422011-12-06T09:46:28.575-08:002011-12-06T09:46:28.575-08:00Stunning.Stunning.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com